transplant

April 2, 2013 · 1 comment

in He is good

“…In the spring of 2010 a skiing accident took the life of [Tara Storch's] thirteen-year-old daughter, Taylor.  What followed for Tara and her husband, Todd, was every parent’s worst nightmare: a funeral, a burial, a flood of questions and tears.  They decided to donate their daughter’s organs to needy patients.  Few people needed a heart more than Patricia Winters.  Her heart had begun to fail five years earlier, leaving her too weak to do much more than sleep.  Taylor’s heart gave Patricia a fresh start on life.

“Tara had only one request: she wanted to hear the heart of her daughter.  She and Todd flew from Dallas to Phoenix and went to Patricia’s home to listen to Taylor’s heart.

“The two mothers embraced for a long time.  Then Patricia offered Tara and Todd a stethoscope.  When they listened to the healthy rhythm, whose heart did they hear?  Did they not hear the still-beating heart of their daughter?  It indwells a different body, but the heart is the heart of their child.  And when God hears your heart, does He not hear the still-beating heart of His Son?”

“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you.” Ezekiel 36:26

-from Max Lucado’s Shaped by Grace

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April 1, 2013 · 0 comments

in random-ness, video

Last week I found a couple spare minutes to sit on the porch in the sunshine.  And in those glorious minutes wherein I was all by my lonesome, I watched cat videos.  My first foray into what is popular enough to mock on those internet ecards.

I watched cat videos because Gayle King, earlier that morning on the Early Show, told me to. And since Oprah does not reach into my non-cabled home, I have to rely on Oprah’s best friend to fill the void of letting me know all things new for the SAHM crowd.

NOW, I watched a cat dealing with an existential crisis. Only deep-thinking cat videos for me; none of the silliness. And here I’ll share two of the better ones with you.

You’re welcome.

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‘Yeah, when we pulled up they all said, “Who drove their Mom’s car? … Oh, a mom.”‘

-guessing the reactions of the hip kids after pulling up to the new hip kid coffee shop in Tulsa

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‘The people who came today… These are the true believers.  We will see today who we will see in Heaven.’

-noticing the lack of cars outside church last Sunday

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‘So.  This is it.  These are my people … And I’m a little disappointed.’

-looking around at the other attendees of the They Might Be Giants concert

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‘I guess I’ve missed my chance to play bingo ironically.’

-receiving a Bingo stamper for his 40th birthday from Shawn and Amanda

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me, after heavily salting my sweet potato fries: ‘You know, I just read something again about how salt is not bad for your heart.’

Hubby: ‘You know, I believe people will live longer when they stop reading all this health crap.’

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i recommend

March 27, 2013 · 0 comments

in just me

Do not let the name–or the odious fact that Elizabeth Gilbert’s recommendation is at the top of the paperback version–give you pause in reading this book: The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society is one of the better books you will ever read.

This book is not twee.  It is not overly sentimental, it does not pull cheap tricks to get you to laugh or to cry, but you will do both.  I laughed out loud and then had to put the book down a few pages later to get my thoughts in order.  One time in particular I had to leave the room my kids were in so that I could crawl under my covers and hide to process the evil in the world.  Although you can never fully process the evil, can you.

Here are some of the better quotes to whet your palate for a good book, then you can go buy one for yourself.  Or borrow it from your sister, as I did, which is how I read all my good books lately.  Anyway, on to the quotes:

Does it ever give thee pause, that men used to have a soul–not by hearsay alone, or as a figure of speech; but as a truth that they knew, and acted  upon!  Verily it was another world then… but yet it is a pity we have lost the tidings of our souls… we shall have to go in search of them again, or worse in all ways shall befall us.

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I, too, have felt that the war goes on and on.  When my son, Ian, died at El Alamein–side by side with Eli’s father, John–visitors offering their condolences, thinking to comfort me, said “Life goes on.”  What nonsense, I thought, of course it doesn’t.  It’s death that goes on; Ian is dead now and will be dead tomorrow and next year and forever.  There’s no end to that.  But perhaps there will be an end to the sorrow of it.  Sorrow has rushed over the world like the waters of the Deluge, and it will take time to recede.  But already, there are small islands of–hope?  Happiness?  Something like them, at any rate.

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Some of the Todt workers were kept down on the Common, behind a wire fence–they were white as ghosts, covered in cement dust; there was only one water standpipe for over a hundred men to wash themselves.

Children sometimes went down to the green to see the Todt workers behind the wire fences.  They would poke walnuts and apples, sometimes potatoes, through the wire for them.  There was one Todt worker who did not take the food–he came to see the children.  He would put his arm through the wire just to hold their faces in his hands, to touch their hair.

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Dead Bride is not a complicated game like Snakes and Ladders; it’s quite simple.  The bride veils herself in a lace curtain and stuffs herself into the laundry hamper, where she lies as though dead while the anguished bridegroom hunts for her.  When he finally discovers her entombed in the laundry hamper, he breaks into loud wails.  Then and only then does the bride jump up, yell “Surprise!” and clutch him to her.  Then it is all joy and smiles and kisses.  Privately, I don’t give that marriage much of a chance.

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Think of it!  We could have gone on longing for one another and pretending not to notice forever.  This obsession with dignity can ruin your life if you let it.

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The Augusta Gazette!  It’s been a while since I’ve provided links so I won’t overwhelm you; I’ll just give you the last three weeks’ worth, for your time-killing pleasure.

When G and I ran together.

When Hubby and I went to Tulsa.

When Little Missy and I went to the mall.

 

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